singing andrei

this was taken during when andrei was sooo hyper, and full of energy, (as in walang topak), when everybody was clapping their hands, andrei is like a battery operated toy, that will automatically sing...

at his very young age, he really really loves to sing (sometimes with matching dance pa), the lyrics wasn't familiar to anyone but still it is beautiful to our ears. we can't understand the words but we know what he was singing because of the tune, yes he got the tune (galing talaga).

i hope that his interest in singing doesn't fade until he grows.

Trick or treat 2009 @ funranch

Funranch was held their yearly Halloween party last October 24, and my little boy participated the event, it was our first trick or treat ever. Even my son didn’t feel well that time, he still really had a great time mingled with our kids. I myself was also enjoyed in the event since it was my first time also to join trick or treat, (grabeh noh, d kc ko dinadala ng mommy ko sa ganun dati eh) plus the fact that I saw my online buddies there (moms like me) with their kiddos.





Thank you fun ranch for the wonderful experience like this..





I am looking forward for more andrei’s trick or treat with you…

my cute dwarf

2 days to go,, andrei and i will attend the halloween party at funranch, this is the first time that andrei will participate in trick or treat. i hope andrei will gonna a have a good time with other kids.





this is my little boy costume on saturday...

MGA PAMATAY NA QUOTES ni Bob-Ong

1. Kung hindi mo mahal ang isang tao, wag ka nang magpakita ng motibo para mahalin ka niya.

2. Huwag mong bitawan ang bagay na hindi mo kayang makitang hawak ng iba. Huwag mong hawakan kung alam mong bibitawan mo lang. Huwag na huwag kang hahawak kapag alam mong may hawak ka na.

3. Parang elevator lang yan eh, bakit mo pagsisiksikan ung sarili mo kung walang pwesto para sayo. Eh meron naman hagdan, ayaw mo lang pansinin.

4. Kung maghihintay ka nang lalandi sayo, walang mangyayari sa buhay mo. Dapat lumandi ka din.

5. Pag may mahal ka at ayaw sayo, hayaan mo. malay mo sa mga susunod na araw ayaw mo na din sa kanya, naunahan ka lang.

6. Hiwalayan na kung di ka na masaya. Walang gamot sa tanga kundi pagkukusa.

7. Pag hindi ka mahal ng mahal mo wag ka magreklamo. Kasi may mga tao rin na hindi mo mahal pero mahal ka.. Kaya quits lang.

8. Kung dalawa ang mahal mo, piliin mo ung pangalawa. Kasi hindi ka naman magmamahal ng iba kung mahal mo talaga ung una.

9. Hindi porket madalas mong ka-chat, kausap sa telepono, kasama sa mga lakad o ka-text ng wantusawa eh may gusto sayo at magkakatuluyan kayo. Meron lang talagang mga taong sadyang friendly, sweet, flirt, malandi, pa-fall o paasa.

10. Huwag magmadali sa babae o lalaki. Tatlo, lima, sampung taon, mag-iiba ang pamantayan mo at maiisip mong hindi pala tamang pumili ng kapareha dahil lang maganda o guwapo ito. Totoong mas mahalaga ang kalooban ng tao higit sa anuman. Sa paglipas ng panahon, maging ang mga crush ng bayan nagmumukha ding pandesal, maniwala ka.

11. Minsan kahit ikaw ang nakaschedule, kailangan mo pa rin maghintay, kasi hindi ikaw ang priority.

12. Mahirap pumapel sa buhay ng tao. Lalo na kung hindi ikaw ung bida sa script na pinili niya.

13. Alam mo ba kung gaano kalayo ang pagitan ng dalawang tao pag nagtalikuran na sila? Kailangan mong libutin ang buong mundo para lang makaharap ulit ang taong tinalikuran mo.

14. Mas mabuting mabigo sa paggawa ng isang bagay kesa magtagumpay sa paggawa ng wala.

15. Hindi lahat ng kaya mong intindihin ay katotohanan, at hindi lahat ng hindi mo kayang intindihin ay kasinungalingan.

16. Kung nagmahal ka ng taong di dapat at nasaktan ka, huwag mong sisihin ang puso mo. Tumitibok lang yan para mag-supply ng dugo sa katawan mo.
Ngayon, kung magaling ka sa anatomy at ang sisisihin mo naman ay ang hypothalamus mo na kumokontrol ng emotions mo, mali ka pa rin! Bakit?
Utang na loob! Wag mong isisi sa body organs mo ang mga sama ng loob mo sa buhay! Tandaan mo: magiging masaya ka lang kung matututo kang tanggapin na hindi ang puso, utak, atay o bituka mo ang may kasalanan sa lahat ng nangyari sayo, kundi IKAW mismo!

17. Pakawalan mo ung mga bagay na nakakasakit sayo kahit na pinasasaya ka nito. Wag mong hintayin ang araw na sakit na lang ang nararamdaman mo at iniwan ka na ng kasiyahan mo.

18. Gamitin ang puso para alagaan ang mga taong malalapit sayo. Gamitin ang utak para alagaan ang sarili mo.

19. Ang pag-ibig parang imburnalnakakatakot mahulogat kapag nahulog ka, its either by accident or talagang tanga ka.



Nalaman kong hindi final exam ang passing rate ng buhay. hindi ito multiple choice, identification, true or false, enumeration or fill-in-the- blanks na sinasagutan kundi essay na isinusulat araw-araw. Huhusgahan ito hindi base sa kung tama o mali ang sagot, kundi base sa kung may kabuluhan ang mga isinulat o wala. Allowed ang erasures.

Para sa mga TANGANG LALAKI at MAGAGANDANG BABAE........

Before, hinahabol kita pero di mo ako
pinapansin. Tapos isang araw nawala ako,
hinanap mo ako at tinanong, "Bakit ka nagsawa?"
Ngumiti ako, "Hindi ako nagsawa. Natauhan
lang." Pwede mo kong lokohin pero wag kang
magpapahuli sakin. Pwede mo kong palitan pero
siguraduhin mong mas mahal mo siya sakin.
Pwede mo kong iwan pero siguraduhin mong kaya
mo. Kasi pag ako sobrang nasaktan, wala ka
nang babalikan.

Ang Boys?.......

Pag trip ka, magpapakilala. Kaibigan
kuno hanggang pumorma na. Tapos pag
nahulog ka na, ayun, goodbye na dahil sawa na
sila. Pero dapat walang iiyak at smile lang tayo.
Punyeta, anong silbi ng karma?
I fell in love and got hurt but I didn't shed too much
tears nor did I ask him to love me again. Instead, I
stood up proudly and said, "Ganyan talaga ang
magaganda! Hindi bagay sa tanga!"
Simple lang para hindi ka masaktan. Kapag
minahal ka, mahalin mo din. Kapag ginago ka,
gaguhin mo rin. Pero kapag umiyak ka, tanga ka!
Ginago ka na nga, iiyakan mo pa?
Pag iniwan ka ng mahal mo, wag mo siyang
sisihin! Kausapin mo siya ng harap-harapan at
sabihin mong, "Ingat, tanga ka pa naman!"
Masakit pag iniwan ka ng mahal mo. Pero wag
kang magagalit ng husto. Kahit papano may
pinagsamahan naman kayo, diba? Kaya for the
last time yakapin mo siya at ibulong mo, "Gago, kukulamin kita!"
Girls, talo daw tayo sa mga boys? Papayag
kayo? Sige, pag niligawan tayo, sagot agad. Pag
iniwan tayo? Ok lang. Kapag sinabi nilang, "Uy,
ex ko." Alam niyo sagot diyan? "Ay, ambisyoso."
If the one you love doesn't love you back, don't get
depressed. Just think about it for a while, maybe
cry a bit then wipe your tears and say, "Ang weird
naman niya. Di siya pumapatol sa magaganda!"
You only got one life so live it well.,
one heart so take good care,
one soul so keep it pure.
One boyfriend? What a waste!!!!!!!

Make it two or more!
Sayang ganda natin!
Pag sinabi sayo ng mahal mo na ayaw na niya
sayo, hayaan mo lang. Wag kang iiyak at
magpapakagago! Imbis na iyakan mo siya, ngitian
mo lang at sabihin mo ang ganito,

"So, pano?
Bye na! Naghihintay na ang kapalit mo!"
Who cares about break-ups? Oo nga, masakit.
Makirot sa puso.

Pero tandaan mo: a break-up
isn't only an end to a relationship. It's also a
beginning of a new one and an end to a living hell
called "ex".

andrei's 1st birthday party

April 18, 2009, my son celebrated his first birthday party, held at jollibee tondo with a sesame street theme. I can’t say that the party was sooo bongga, but I may say that the event was full of fun and excitement.

At my son’s very young age, I know that he was not yet aware what’s happening that time, but I saw and I knew from my heart that he was very happy that time. The party hosted by kuya Arvin (Jollibee service crew) was so great, (love it!) Young and young at hearts had a good, good time….

Thank to all who helped me out to make that party possible. Thanks to Ms. Emily of sugar box for the wonderful cake and cupcakes that everyone enjoyed. Thanks to my family who helped me to decorated the balloons, the lootbags, and games prizes. And thanks to the guest who attended in our event.

I hope and wish and pray that my son’s birthday party every yearssss to come will become memorable not only to him and the whole family but also for all of his guest…

Best things happened…

April 18, 2008, one of my unforgettable experience happened. After nine months of waiting, In the middle of the dawn i felt a little bit of pain, a pain in the beginning but end with so much ouch, (i thought i was dying that time), but this pain was so unique coz it brings a lot of excitement…. yes,,, there was really an excitement for i know that in just an hour, my bundle of joy will soon come to this earth.

And finally after 12 hours of labor suffering, that same day at around 2.20 in the afternoon ,,, i heard my baby’s first cry.. wheeew… it was so wonderful sound, a music to my ears. It was really happiness, beyond happiness. But still so many questions hanging at the back of my mind. Like, How will i raise my child being alone? What if someday my son will ask me about his father, did he really loved us? How will explain to him that this the real world. That my relationship with his father is not like a fairy tale that ends with a happy ending. Sounds pathetic right? I know being a single mom is really a tough job. But despite of so many questions and a bit of agony, still happiness prevails compared to emptiness.

And now, several months had passed,,, i have now a very wonderful gift from up above,,, my handsome loving son. The best reward that i ever received, my joy, my source of strength and inspiration, and the one why i truly live for. The little boy who changed my whole life. A missing peace that i’ve been looking for, all my life.

In time, when you will read this son, i just want you to know that even without your father beside us,,, i’m still thankful having you. You are not an accident nor a big mistake,, coz you are the one that i am dreaming all my life, and that all i ever wanted. Always remember that momma is so really proud of you.

So blessed to come to a point of realization that God allowed me to experience one of his greatest miracles. Now i know why should i have to work very hard. My priorities are more very clear now.

Finally i can now say,,, at last i am complete…..